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I Might Need Some Help

Discussion in 'Nemract's Bar' started by Treasure_Man, Mar 14, 2018.

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  1. Treasure_Man

    Treasure_Man BΣᄃӨMΣ ӨПΣ ЩIƬΉ ƬΉΣ ΉIVΣ HERO

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    Yeah, I need some help with some encouragement and/or suggestions on, well, "relationships".
    I say that with those quotation marks because I'm actually still in my teens, and I don't plan on actually having a girlfriend (I'm a boy) until at least 1 or 2 years have passed.
    But yeah, I've got a huge crush on this girl in my school, and as I said, I need suggestions and maybe some encouragement on what to do/say to her.
    Things to note:
    • She doesn't really check her e-mail that much (tried that)
    • She's actually only in one of my classes (but I do see her a lot)
    • I don't know if she's part of my religion or any religion at all
    If you have any serious ideas please tell me! It would help a bunch.
     
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    flip Chef HERO

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    Personally I've never been in a relationship nor am I interested in one but I'd say get to know her a bit first before nose diving straight into flirty conversation, whether or not you're going to put this off for the 1 or 2 years that you've mentioned. Maybe if you become close enough she'll possibly develop feelings towards you too. Again take everything I say with a slight grain of salt as I stated before I have not been, nor do I plan to be involved in any kind of relationship yet.

    Either way, I wish you the best of luck between the two of you.
     
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  3. Aquila

    Aquila Freedom Specialist VIP+

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    Im sorry but I find it a little hilarious that you are asking relationship adviced on the wynncraft forums xd
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    Treasure_Man BΣᄃӨMΣ ӨПΣ ЩIƬΉ ƬΉΣ ΉIVΣ HERO

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    XD I know I'm honestly kind of desperate.
     
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    Treasure_Man BΣᄃӨMΣ ӨПΣ ЩIƬΉ ƬΉΣ ΉIVΣ HERO

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    In the sense of help, that is.
     
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    Twilo101 Well-Known Adventurer VIP+

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    Okay, this is advice from the guy who waited too long and whose crush was eventually taken:
    • Be patient. Don't rush things, or it'll backfire hard
    • Pay attention to the details. If they come up at another point she'll know that you're paying attention and that you care
    • Be happy with what you have at the moment. Yes, being in the friendzone can be a letdown, but you've stated yourself that you have a huge crush, which most likely means that you care, and I imagine that losing a friend over not being satisfied with what you have right now can be very painful
    These are the tips from an Introvert's personal experience. Good luck
     
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    Treasure_Man BΣᄃӨMΣ ӨПΣ ЩIƬΉ ƬΉΣ ΉIVΣ HERO

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    Aww, sorry to hear that...
    But that info helps a lot, thank you so much!
     
  8. Cassie81

    Cassie81 Overlord of The Dern Providence HERO

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    I'm in a hell where not a single person wants to be in a relationship with you, but in the one lucky relationship I had in my life (which was back in November), I have learned to listen. Always listen to a girl, no matter how boring it gets; it will always be worth your time in the end.
     
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    SpoonsMcGee Psychotic Ice Cream

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    As a girl, I will say this: girls really appreciate it when someone (especially a guy) takes the time to get to know her. Just showing that you care about who she is will probably be the best thing you can do.
     
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    Aya Very Serious Gensokyo Journalist HERO

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    i wanna post a meme now that i have the chance but considering u need real help i would feel shit
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    just try to not go full "WOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWW" mode when she is close
     
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    Treasure_Man BΣᄃӨMΣ ӨПΣ ЩIƬΉ ƬΉΣ ΉIVΣ HERO

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    Well, I guess that helps?
     
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    bros b4 hoes, and most importantly fortnite b4 girls
     
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    ThomAnn100 I have reached peak intelligence VIP+

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    I agree
     
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    Treasure_Man BΣᄃӨMΣ ӨПΣ ЩIƬΉ ƬΉΣ ΉIVΣ HERO

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  16. Aquila

    Aquila Freedom Specialist VIP+

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    Fortnite to me honestly just looks like another thing that will die in a year. It also is a literal rip off of minecraft hunger games where the borders close in on you lmao.

    Also.....

    Has any progress been made or are you still waiting? Dont wait too long lol
     
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  18. coolname2034

    coolname2034 Formerly known as NPCGrian HERO

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    I thought you weren’t looking for a relationship?
     
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