Serious Little Question.....

What do You do when a member of your family die? :c
Are You sad? Neutral? Do You cry? Fall in dépression? :c
I need some answers for help me pls :(

 

I cry, ofcourse I cry. Someone in my family just died and ain't coming back. But you gotta remember that those who are close and die still are there with you. Even if they're dead, they will be there watching you <3

 

Ty for the help :c <3

 

It kind of depends how close they were to me. I had some grandparents die when I was much younger, so I had barely developed any feelings for them at all. I love them in hindsight, but at the time I was savagely indifferent. When my parents die, though, it would be hard not to slip into depression for me. Don't feel bad if you aren't crying your eyes out, though. Whoever passed away wouldn't want you to feel guilty about "mourning them improperly." You're not disrespecting their memory by not being extremely sad. Anyway, I'm very sorry for your loss and hope you get to feeling better.

 

Let's say 10 meter radius...

 

Ty

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I don't really cry when people die.

I just frown a lot and I get down in the dumps for the rest of the week.

 

I would probably fall in depression for a week or even more.I'm emotional more than u think lol
And hey! U said he is fine D: , what happened ??

 

Short Answer:

I would be neutral. I have accepted death as a necessary thing, as we don't have immortality pills or the sort in today's world.

Long Answer:

If the family that died were one or both of my parents I would be extremely disappointed as I would have to either go back to a local school, which is bad. Since I go to an international school and now my ''mother language" sucks, I have no chances of succeeding in school.

If it were my brother I would be both relieved and disappointed in the same time, because he generally is just a good for nothing brat who can't grades that measure up to mine. In short my grades were always better than him because he had gaming technology to distract him from proper work, while in the earlier half of my life, I was only aware of four types of entertainment: reading, physical activity, watching tv, and playing board games. I would be disappointed as my parents worked really hard to allow my brother into the same school as I am in, but not be able to give back in the end AKA getting a job with good salary to support my parents when they get old.

If it were my cousins or uncles/aunts I couldn't really care less, since I barely know them and I have only met the majority once or twice. I don't even remember some of their names.

If it were my grandparents on my father's side, I would be neutral because it wasn't surprising as both of them have gotten a stroke before due to their habits of frequently eating out.

If it was my granny from my mother's side, I would feel once again disappointed and surprised as this grandma was a very healthy person who went for a morning jog almost everyday. A lot of people on my mom's side of the family liked her too.

If it was my gramps from my mother's side, I wouldn't feel much. This is due to the fact the only memory of him I can remember is of eating at a restaurant. Yep that's it.

For the most part, if someone close to me died I would be neutral. If their death affected my lifestyle in any way, I would resent them for dying since I am but a selfish child who doesn't want to learn to live the hard way. I do not feel much from their death because I understand from today's technology, death is inevitable and you should accept it. Sometimes people die from stupid reasons, but it isn't their fault unless they suicided because that means they CHOSE to kill themselves.

 

Ever since my grandpa died of cancer, I litteraly havnt been able to cry or feel any joy for years....hell I felt a bit sad since my cousin committed suicide. I also lost interest in many things. I stopped talking to friends and now most of them are moving away across the country. Idk if this is puberty or if im just becoming an asocial. I don't feel empathy as much as my other classmates eather and i rather work alone.

 

The exact same for me exept the suicidal cousin.

 

It is rather sad. Not that I'm insensitive, but I can never bring myself to cry when a family member dies.

 

My cat died best solution dont think about who dies and think about whats around you
If you start thinking about them and the good moments you had with them you will start crying
so if someone brings them up try to switch the topic.

 

Crying only shows that you still care for them, it's not bad.